Your brain is different.
Less than 2% of people have a brain like yours.
You've vastly underestimated the impact of this difference on your quality of life and on the creations you most crave to share with the world.
This is the tweak you've missed.
It's ok, you've got it now.
Let me explain...
Hi, I'm Melanie.
And if you have a highly gifted brain and a desire to share important things with the world, this site is for you. Welcome. Let's have some fun!
(PS: all writing and artwork shared here came from me directly, 100% human made, with no AI. So you can relax your nervous system as you engage here, in the comfort that you are hearing from me DIRECTLY, unmediated by machine writing or visuals.)
I work with people like us. People with an outlier brain - often called “highly gifted.”
I've spent tens of thousands of hours personally helping others like us.
Across the board, the biggest issue is this:
It's time to stop forcing the advice that works for the other 98%, which is pretty much all that's been available.
There are various ways to define giftedness.
Every human has gifts, and it is vital that we each uncover and live our gifts.
For our purposes, however, I am speaking of the specific brain type with which a small subset of the population is born.
This outlier brain places you in the top 2% of intellectual and creative potential.
It cannot be learned or taught.
It is a birth characteristic, like green eyes, which, incidentally, are also seen in only about two percent of the population.
Like extraordinary athletic or musical ability, neurological giftedness cannot be taught, but it can be nurtured or suppressed.
(photo by Tim Mossholder on Unsplash)
Consider Simone Biles.
The incredible potential with which she was born was not something that society would have supported her to properly potentiate had she been forced to stay on traditional school and career pathways.
Only very specific training, coaching, and devotion on her part allowed her to transmute this intrinsic gift into becoming the most decorated gymnast in history.
She has publicly spoken about this in depth, including the need for highly personalized psychological and self-development support that lies far outside what most people would consider athletic training.
Similarly, our gifted brains have not been supported by typical parenting and societal structures, even for those of us fortunate enough to have accessed highly elite academic settings. These are, unfortunately, not places that understand the entirety of how we function and flourish.
This outlier brain type is not a skill that can be learned, but we can learn to become skillful in living with it.
Mainstream advice and research doesn't take our brain type into account.
I've seen so many highly gifted people diligently applying the best-in-class research from various disciplines to their own lives, and yet still having problems and feeling like they aren't expressing all that they believe themselves capable of.
Feeling like we aren't meeting our true potential or finding ourselves unable to fully create what we know is within us is an existential pain that others don't understand. They simply can't.
The "otherness" of our brain type has been with us quietly in the background since birth.
The lack of ACCURATE support for optimizing it has caused us to feel like there is simply something wrong or off about ourselves individually: a personality or character flaw. We just need more discipline, stronger willpower, the proper daily routine, the better productivity stack, the better planner, a mystery supplement or diet change, a deeper understanding of flow science, and on and on and on.
This is true even if you were identified as gifted during childhood and given specialized education or access to premium learning organizations.
In fact, for many such children, this may have actually exacerbated the issue, based on my many years of experience with others like us.
Commonly, I see people who have done an incredible amount of personal work and have developed a highly resilient and intentionally positive approach to life, and even achieved incredible "success" by mainstream definitions.
This makes them even more sure they are just one tweak away from FINALLY getting things where they want them.
AND THEY ARE.
But you can be three feet from gold, digging madly, and that can go on for years if your digging is NOT DIRECTIONALLY ACCURATE.
It’s best to think of me like a highly specialized wilderness trail guide.
And the wilderness we are exploring is you.
I'll show you where the best trails are; these are almost always the most hidden ones as well.
I’ll teach you how to navigate the thickets without getting cut up by the brambly thorns.
I’ll guide you onto and down the most secret paths through the woods that suddenly open up to the most jaw-dropping overlooks showcasing the vast landscape that you are.
You are the wild terrain, the undiscovered country, the final frontier your heart has been craving so deeply for your entire life.
You are the beautiful, living forest and meadow and river and mountain and ocean simply waiting for your own awake awareness to visit, to learn, to know, to love, and to tend to with sustainable capacity as you bloom into your unique chosen and intentional magnificence of the living artistry and unique joy that is your outlier brain.
Yep. ALLL of that. For real.
I help in two different ways: 1) through prepared resources you journey with on your own, and 2) through live work together:
These are the fastest and least expensive methods (for you! They take a LOT of time and care from me!) for me to give you the best of my best.
You would start with "Fundamentals of the Highly Gifted Brain" which is a pure diamond!
It provides a comprehensive foundation for understanding your highly gifted brain and how to optimize your life as a result of its unique characteristics.
It distills down my decades of work and tens of thousands of hours of direct support to people with this outlier brain type who make up less than 2% of the population and have very different needs than others.
Inside, you will find both audio and written versions of the materials, along with bonus material only available here.
We have a community feed inside as well, for those who would like to connect with other outlier brain types or ask questions. You can also message me directly.
You can scroll down further to see the options available for live work with me.
You are designed for the new, but you must learn how to effectively corral the torrent of ideas and energy running through you or it is wasted, which radically degrades morale.
Our journey herein is to decode and uncover what that means and the pathways to get there.
Life design for us has to be approached differently than for most people.
It’s easy to spend years, decades - indeed, even one’s whole life - working hard to apply the common wisdom and research about effective life design for satisfaction, productivity, happiness, relationship richness, even health, and yet never fully achieve these goals.
I do it for many reasons. The biggest of these are:
1: the off the charts personal satisfaction I feel when I see the impact of this work on another outlier human like me.
I KNOW that their trajectory is now radically improved, regardless of how amazing it already appeared.
2: I also have a global paradigm shifting big "WHY," best described as the restoration of joy to the planet.
I firmly believe the outliers will play a massive role in this work. But they must each first be restored of their own authentic joy.
The below writing and imagery best unpacks this for me.
(The combination of visual and written words are crucial for my own creative work to feel accurate to me and therefore be satisfying and enriching. Have you discovered any similar quirks in your own creation process?)
There is a wondrous and rare form of joy available to the outlier gifted brain.
It neither makes much sense to others nor is it available by any of their traditional pathways to joy.
We live in a time when joy is needed for the human species to continue, when only joy will propel us through this narrow passage.
Sustainable access to joy for those with highly gifted brains occurs through entirely different means and pathways than it does for others.
It is also as much an outlier of experience for the gifted as the gifted themselves are for the overall population.
We live in a time in which our brightest minds are removed of joy and therefore are creating from sources other than joy, resulting in contributions unable to enhance humanity’s positive trajectory.
Will we spiral into transhumanist technofeudalism? or will we restore ourselves of joy and create the new society for all in correct alignment with Earth?
Fundamentals of the Highly Gifted Brain decodes the gifted outlier and provides understanding of the pathways for expanding their joy…
...so that the gifted can actualize their soul purpose and contribute meaningfully to the new trajectory for humans on Earth.
Restore your special joy.
Share the full authentic contribution of all that you are with yourself and the world.
IT ALL STARTS HERE.
This 5-part series provides a comprehensive foundation for understanding your highly gifted brain and how to optimize your life as a result of its unique characteristics.
It distills down my decades of work and tens of thousands of hours of direct support to people with this outlier brain type who make up less than 2% of the population and have very different needs than others.
Inside, you will find both audio and written versions of the materials, along with bonus material only available here.
We have a community feed inside as well, for those who would like to connect with other outlier brain types or ask questions. You can also message me directly.
This 5-part series provides a comprehensive foundation for understanding your highly gifted brain and how to optimize your life as a result of its unique characteristics.
People with gifted brains don't realize that virtually all guidance out there on things related to life satisfaction, stress management, productivity and more simply doesn't really work for us.
Gifted people are only truly happy when they feel they are using all of their gifts. Designing one's life to ensure this is happening is a subtle business, yet vital.
Part 1: Introduction to the Highly Gifted Brain
Part 2: Humaning While Highly Gifted
Part 3: When the Highly Gifted Brain Becomes Kryptonite
Part 4: High Functioning Giftedness
Part 5: The True Purpose of the Highly Gifted Brain
🌟 Boundaries for the Highly Gifted
🌟 ESSENCE Foundations
🌟 Audio + written materials available both by separate sections and combined into all-in-one written and audio versions to better accommodate different learning styles.
When registering below, be sure to use the email address you'll want to use when signing in to your library!
You'll be taken directly to the welcome page upon paying, where you can get started right away. All materials are immediately available.
You can scroll inside the white box below to complete all the fields.
If you are already an app member for other materials and groups, please use the same email here as you already use there. Please ignore the "already a member? login" option on this page. Thank you for making both our lives slightly technologically easier!
The world needs the unique point of view that you can only share by properly embodying your true self at last.
Despite it all.
Despite the ill-fitting social norms.
Despite the trauma.
Despite the millions of “NOs” shouted from the outside or, worse, inside.
(Details on each of these are found below)
I work with highly gifted men and women over age 18. I work with couples who are creating together (not for relationship repair) and where at least one is highly gifted. I only work with children in active partnership with their parents, and only after a mutual screening discussion to assess.
All options include free access to Fundamentals of the Highly Gifted Brain and recordings of sessions.
I have a very unusual calendar in order to meet my personal rhythm needs, so all sessions are manually scheduled between us (versus an automatic online scheduler - I've used these, and they are so helpful, but my rhythms make managing one of these harder than simply booking with you directly).
Reach out if you have questions: melanie@melaniegillespie.com or use the contact form here or in the top menu. For the 10 day or longer options, I am happy to set up a free 15 minute discovery call if you feel that would better help you gauge fit.
Immediate transformation.
Get your motor running again and your battery fully juiced.
PRACTICAL. TACTICAL. UPLIFTING. ENLIVENING.
This is for those times when we need rapid support: when we've stalled out or are feeling paralyzed at the edge of a massive leap.
Together we'll drop the needle and get you grooving again!
One two-hour live session of jam-packed gifted brain GOODNESS!
$497USD
Purely for the extreme glee, unmitigated delight, and exhilarating joy of the experience!
Journey deep into the landscape of yourself for a proper mapping of the uncharted terrain that your highly gifted brain provides.
Ventures into the mystic and magic side of the outlier brain if you want that layer.
This is a three hour, one-time session.
$797USD
Buckle up for ESCAPE VELOCITY!
This is for those who can handle some serious G force with exhilaration, who love to go ALLLL IN.
TEN DAYS.
Two live sessions to open and close, with daily deep dive unrestricted messaging.
Perfect for multiple scenarios:
Two 90 min lives at the open and close of 10 days of unlimited daily deep messaging.
$4,997USD
Purely for the extreme glee, unmitigated delight, and exhilarating joy of the experience!
TEN DAYS.
Journey deep into the landscape of yourself for a proper mapping of the uncharted terrain that your highly gifted brain provides.
Ventures into the mystic and magic side of the outlier brain if you want that layer.
THREE 90 min lives across 10 days of unlimited daily deep messaging. LET'S GOOOOOO!
$7,997USD
ready the hyperdrive!
This is for the rebel inside you.
The one who wants to properly unleash the wild child on the world.
You've got a massive mission to radically transform society, and you want to be sure to use every gorgeous nook and cranny of that amazing outlier/highly gifted brain in a JOYFUL and liberating process.
This intimate group will gather weekly.
(More detail coming soon)
If this meme makes you laugh out loud and feel a certain tingle in your body, this is probably for YOU!
I feel that way every. single. time I look at it! 🤣 (and if we're not having fun, what are we even doing?! That would be no way to restore joy to the world!)
Join the waiting list for this special new group opportunity. I promise you'll hear about it first, giving you an extra couple of days to be sure to get a spot. This group WILL HAVE LIMITED SEATS for an intimate journey together.
Reach out if you have questions: melanie@melaniegillespie.com
We all have gifts.
In the context of my work and the resources shared here, I am speaking about the giftedness of the highly gifted brain. I am not dogmatic about this. No one is going to ask you for your IQ score, nor would I be remotely impressed by it. This isn't about all that, even if it's relevant for you.
The highly gifted brain is a rare brain type that occurs in roughly 2% of people. It is a birth characteristic like green eyes - not a learned or developed trait - which places you in the top 2% of intrinsic intellectual/creative potential.
Gifted people tend to fall into one of two camps: the multi-potentialite (wide-ranging interest areas) and the specialist (the deep diver in a more narrow band of interest). I am the multi-potentialite flavor of outlier, but am comfortable working with both flavors.
You have perhaps been identified as gifted by teachers or others in your childhood or perhaps you've just moved through life with the experience of people calling you smarty pants, being the better problem solver in your groups, feeling bored by what interests most others, being happiest when learning something new or feeling the synthesis across disparate sets of data as it's occurring.
If you feel unsure about whether you are fit for my work in terms of the giftedness aspect, but this page here has resonated strongly, I'd suggest you simply read (or listen) to the Fundamentals of the Highly Gifted Brain.
If, like so many others, you have a feeling of being seen and understood in a manner rare in your life, perhaps even for the first time, then, there you go. This is an inexpensive resource that is like a clown car exploding with diamond after diamond as you move through it and sit with it again and again. For many, this is all they needed to shift their trajectory.
While I am highly experienced with neurodivergence, such as ADHD, OCD, Autism, and other forms, I am NOT an expert in these areas in the way that I am with giftedness.
HOWEVER, if you believe you have these brain types but were not assessed by someone who also specializes in giftedness, you may be misdiagnosed, as there is a significant overlap in traits/tendencies. This may or may not mean someone is actually in both categories. One may simply be gifted and believe one has ADHD or "high functioning" ASD. One possible consideration could be if the usual tactics for managing challenges arising from these more commonly discussed neurodivergent types don't seem to help very much or leave one feeling sure there is something else going on.
If these are traits for you and you'd like to explore fit more closely, please let me know. We can use email or a free 15 min call, whichever you prefer. My email is melanie@melaniegillespie.com.
I am here to restore joy to the world. That is my personal purpose and the throughline of every serious endeavor, professional or personal, I have ever undertaken.
I value kindness, integrity, authenticity, and beauty - in the most abstract sense of the word.
Personally, I am extremely joyful. This shows up in my bubbly and open personality when we are together for something I find fun (such as this sort of work!). I laugh often; others tell me I am funny as well as being spookily insightful right from the jump. I keep things real and am a very direct person while also prioritizing meeting others where they are at. I bartended my way through undergrad and while I don't include drinking in my life anymore, I do still sometimes get a bit salty with my language. You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl? 🤷🏻♀️ 😬 🤣 If this is something that bothers you, just let me know.
Spiritually, I am not living within any particular established philosophy or religion, nor am I recovering from one. I would characterize myself as a solitary esoteric mystic. Every aspect of my life and my perception of the nature of reality at the macro and the micro is governed by this. I am entirely comfortable and experienced helping people across virtually any spiritual belief set. I struggle the most with atheism, which I have found to be as intensely dogmatic as fundamentalist frames can be. I can meet someone there, but find it rare that people approach me from this worldview anymore.
Politically, I am no longer aligned with any political party, as I find none of them standing for the society I am here to contribute to creating. I am highly knowledgeable about policy work, having previously been connected to this professionally, so I fully understand "how the sausage gets made" in the US, at least, so my position comes from experience, not naïveté. Having said that, I am a massive believer that a little bit of naïveté can go a long way. I have routinely been told things I wanted to do could not be done by those from whom I hoped to learn, and I went ahead and just did them anyway.
Fundamentally, I am a pragmatic idealist, holding the north star of my vision ever clear while making progress and not holding out for a perfectionism that would forestall any movement.
I will do 15 min free discovery calls with those seriously considering any multi-day, 4-figure or above option. Email me to get this scheduled. If you are looking at the one-off/same-day options, please email me with your questions or concerns and I'll reply. My email is melanie@melaniegillespie.com
Other questions? Email me at melanie@melaniegillespie.com. I keep an unusual schedule, so please be prepared that it may take me a few days to reply. Could be fast, and sometimes is, but I find it important to manage expectations!
All writing and artwork shared by Melanie Gillespie here and throughout her online presence are 100% human made. The use of AI for creative work and deep thinking presents a significant threat to the arc of humanity at this time. You can relax your nervous system as you engage with Melanie’s materials, in the comfort that you are hearing from HER DIRECTLY, unmediated by machine writing or visuals.